{"id":359,"date":"2021-03-06T10:42:07","date_gmt":"2021-03-06T10:42:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/?p=359"},"modified":"2021-03-06T10:42:07","modified_gmt":"2021-03-06T10:42:07","slug":"the-roads-not-taken","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/2021\/03\/06\/the-roads-not-taken\/","title":{"rendered":"The Roads Not Taken"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In English director Sally Potter\u2019s most recent feature,&nbsp;<em>The Roads Not Taken<\/em>, the first discernible words uttered by the main character, are&nbsp;<em>\u201ceverything is open.\u201d&nbsp;<\/em>In a sense this statement, mumbled by Leo, a writer living with Dementia, (perfectly portrayed by Hollywood A-Lister, Javier Bardem), gives the viewer a quick synopsis of the entire film. The screenplay, (also written by Potter), jumps backwards and forwards between three different points in Leo\u2019s life. We see him as a younger man, married to Salma Hayek and mourning the death of their son, in exile from his second marriage, writing alone in Greece and finally as an older man, confused and depleted by the illness, being guided through a single day\u2019s errands around the city in the company of his daughter Molly, (sensitively played by Elle Fanning). Everything is open at the same time in this movie. Time is fluid as Leo\u2019s memory leaps and flits from one period to the next. Potter does a masterful job of capturing the eternal present of living with Dementia where the past can seem just as real and believable as the moment the person is actually living in. I particularly enjoyed the way the movie skipped seamlessly between the various stages of Leo\u2019s life, leaving much unsaid, mumbled or deliberately confusing, so the viewer empathises with the confusion experienced by Leo and his family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The strongest section of&nbsp;<em>The Roads Not Taken<\/em>&nbsp;is undoubtedly the strand set in Leo\u2019s present. The relationship between Leo and his daughter Molly -who has taken on much of the carers role- is believable, warm and occasionally heart-breaking. We see Molly\u2019s distress when her father wanders off in the middle of the night. We see her struggle to understand his speech and promise to,&nbsp;<em>\u201ctry harder to see it from your point of view. To see what you see.\u201d&nbsp;<\/em>We see her frustrated when she loses out on a big job because of her responsibilities with her father. We see her irate at the way others treat Leo, speaking over him and patronising him. But what comes across most strongly in Potter\u2019s depiction of their relationship is the way father and daughter continue to find small moments of connection even as the illness forces them apart. There\u2019s a particularly poignant scene in the bathroom at the dentist\u2019s when, having soiled his own trousers, Molly gives her father hers. Even in the midst of humiliation and confusion there are moments when this movie manages to laugh and yet there\u2019s no schmaltzy ending here, no neat conclusion or moment of epiphany. Leo and Molly\u2019s situation is just as complex and difficult at the end of their day together as it was in the opening credits. Neither does Potter attempt to deify Leo or paint Molly as a saint. Both are flawed, occasionally failing characters. This is what makes them believable.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bardem is wonderful in this movie. He has a huge presence onscreen and the sheer bulk of his body, though slowed and atrophied by Dementia, refuses to be relegated to the ranks of a shadowy invalid. He is enormously present throughout. The camera often lingers painfully close to his face, exposing every wrinkle and pore. We are forced to look straight and deliberately at Leo as a person, present with his illness. Here, it is impossible to ignore the person living with Dementia.&nbsp;<em>The Roads Not Taken<\/em>&nbsp;takes an unflinching look at Dementia and our treatment of people living with the illness. To some extent, this unflinching personal gaze makes the viewer feel culpable in the way society has othered, dismissed and ignored the Dementia experience. I don\u2019t think this is any bad thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>The Roads Not Taken was directed by Sally Potter and released in the UK in September 2020&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In English director Sally Potter\u2019s most recent feature,&nbsp;The Roads Not Taken, the first discernible words uttered by the main character, are&nbsp;\u201ceverything is open.\u201d&nbsp;In a sense this statement, mumbled by Leo, a writer living with Dementia, (perfectly portrayed by Hollywood A-Lister, Javier Bardem), gives the viewer a quick synopsis of the entire film. The screenplay, (also [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":901,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[76],"tags":[20,5,6,9],"class_list":["post-359","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-films","tag-american","tag-carers","tag-family","tag-man"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/901"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=359"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":360,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359\/revisions\/360"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=359"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=359"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.qub.ac.uk\/dementiafiction\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=359"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}